"How do you survive the reality of it?(losing three babies) You rest, you grieve, you reach out, you trust, you remember, you hope and you accept. You gravitate to kindness, to help and you relinquish control over things you cannot govern. You assume life is not our there to get you - it's there to teach you and to introduce you to yourself. You love because it's sweeter than bitterness. And you realise that people are incredible, resilient, willing and capable, and that you are one of them."